Vulnerable

We, the Human beings are the slave of our emotions. So often our emotional existence needs to nest on a different layer of noesis and on that very moment we surrender ourselves to someone else. We may get comfort after that by not confronting the things by ourselves but at the same time we lose our natural defence mechanism.  That’s the spark of big bang towards weakness.

But then, is it wrong to share? Big question and even complicated answer. By nature’s normal evolution judgement we have become social and sharing is the utmost prerequisite towards socialization. But our society structure doesn’t allow us with the liberty to socialize in a single dimension. We are predators by birth and our canine teeth are still in place. Few of us may have good souls but the majority still hunts for blood. And in our sophisticated society the red blood has been replaced by social blood and massacre. There is a great saying which goes something like this, “Don’t share your secrets with others. If you can’t trust yourself with your secrets, don’t expect others to keep those to them.” Ugly but true. Trusting others with his or her emotional weaknesses is the biggest mistake one can make, coz in today’s wifi world people change their colours quite often.

There will be few on the reader side who will debate on what I’m saying will not allow people to love others. Well ask yourselves, do you really love someone to such an extent that you don’t take advantage of his or her emotional vulnerability? I can bet on the answer is NO. And that’s the reason I’m inking this. Accept that we are devil by nature and don’t pretend.

Then what’s the way out? Well it’s easy and that way of life is called enigmatic bohemianism. Create a wall around yourself which will not allow others to hurt you but at the same time will not stop you from loving them. Don’t be an emotional fool, and be strong. Never be vulnerable to others and create a strong shield around yourself. Being with others doesn’t mean that you have to be an open book to them, don’t never ever make such a mistake.

Lost Love

Still remember that vigour of yours, that wet trembling of lips;

Those flickering moments of laughter and those emotional dips.

An intriguing pain intruding into the painless veins,

Rejuvenates the memories of the spotless rains.

They say love is never lost, it only changes bond;

Then why my tears these days are so vagabond.